What’s Irving Serving?
Alright, guys & dolls, first of all, let’s get one thing straight: not hearing back from a modeling agency is NOT a reflection of your beauty, your talent, or your value. I know it stings, but let’s face it — these agencies are probably drowning in applications, and honestly, sometimes it’s just a matter of timing or a busy inbox. But since you’re here and need a little extra sparkle in your step, let’s dive into what you can do to turn that disappointment into determination.
1. Take a Moment to Throw a Mini Tantrum, Then Move On
I get it. You sent in your application, maybe a killer headshot, and thought, “This is it! They’re going to sign me right now!” Then, crickets. It’s totally fine to take a moment, preferably in private, to feel sorry for yourself. Throw that mini tantrum. Scream into a pillow, eat a pint of ice cream, whatever. Then, when the emotions settle, it’s time to take action — because you’re a professional and professionals don’t sit around crying. They keep moving forward.
2. Don’t Take It Personally (Even Though It Feels Personal)
Here’s the tea: rejection isn’t always about you. Agencies are looking for something specific. Maybe they just signed someone with your exact look, or they’re not actively searching for new faces right now. Your value doesn’t change just because they didn’t pick up the phone. Get up, fix that lipstick, and remind yourself: they don’t know what they’re missing yet.
3. Follow Up, But Do It Like a Pro
If a couple of weeks have passed and you haven’t heard anything, don’t just wait around in silence like a damsel in distress. It’s time to send a friendly, professional follow-up email. Keep it short, sweet, and polite. Don’t beg or sound desperate (you’re a star, remember?). A little nudge never hurt anyone — as long as it’s respectful.
Example:
Subject: Follow-Up on My Modeling Application
Dear [Agency Name],
I hope you’re doing well. I just wanted to follow up on my application submitted on [date]. I’m very excited about the possibility of working together and would love to hear about next steps. (Add That Cover Letter & Resume) to refresh their memories on who you are.
Best regards,
[Your Name]
No drama. Just the facts.
4. Polish Your Portfolio (Yes, Even More)
Alright, superstar, now is the time to really focus on your craft. Agencies are looking for more than just a pretty face; they want versatility, attitude, and someone who understands the industry. If your portfolio is looking a little basic, it’s time for an update. Invest in a professional photoshoot, experiment with different looks and styles, and don’t be afraid to show personality in those shots. Get that portfolio sparkling and ready for the next application — because it’s not about waiting for them, it’s about being prepared when the right opportunity knocks.
5. Diversify Your Applications — But Keep It Strategic
Okay, so you’ve already applied to one agency. But why stop there? A model’s career is built on exposure, so apply to multiple agencies, both big and small. However, don’t just apply to any agency. Do your homework, check their roster, and make sure they’re looking for models like you. Randomly applying to every agency out there is like throwing spaghetti at the wall — only some of it sticks.
And remember, some agencies are niche. Some are looking for models with specific features, and some have a more niche market, like editorial or commercial. So if you’re not hearing back from your first few attempts, it doesn’t mean you’re out of the game — it just means the fit wasn’t right, and the perfect match is out there waiting.
6. Network Like Your Life Depends On It
The most successful models know that it’s not just about who you know in the agency world — it’s about who knows you. Networking is key, honey. Attend events, fashion shows, or even just hang out where industry people are. If you can’t go to a physical event, get active on social media. Agencies check Instagram, TikTok, and all the other platforms. Be present. Be fabulous. Be noticed.
7. Don’t Wait for a Response to Be Fabulous
If there’s one thing I need you to remember, it’s this: your worth doesn’t change because you haven’t gotten a response. Don’t sit around waiting for that email to define your career. If you want this life, then live it. Start your own photo shoots, collaborate with photographers, makeup artists, and stylists. Create your own opportunities. Build your brand, your following, and your portfolio.
At the end of the day, they’re waiting for you, not the other way around. So stop waiting for validation, and start validating yourself.
8. Stay Resilient — No One Ever Became a Star by Quitting
Success in modeling — and in life, for that matter — is about resilience. Agencies might not respond right away, but that doesn’t mean your dream is dead. Keep applying, keep improving, and keep putting yourself out there. For every “no,” there’s a “yes” waiting around the corner. And trust me, when that “yes” finally happens, it’ll be worth all the rejection, the late nights, and the tears.
Final Thoughts: Keep Hustling, Guys & Dolls
So, kidz, when you apply and the agencies don’t respond, don’t let it slow you down. It’s all part of the process. Keep shining, keep slaying, and keep doing the work that makes you stand out from the crowd. Remember, you’ve got the magic — they just need to notice.
Now get out there and show the world what you’ve got. You’re not just waiting for them to call you — you’re making them want you. That’s the mentality that’ll get you to the top.
Catch Ya Later!!! ✨
Irving
